This is a Guest Post by Mason Jacob
It’s been a while since your better half is coming home late and keeping long hours under the pretext of office work. You have seen her hoping online after a silent dinner or dismissing your questions in weird ways. All these signs are telling you that your spouse is cheating on you. But before you take that next step to end the relationship, make sure not to act in haste because quick decisions are often regretted. Instead, take it easy and go slow in order to come to a conclusion by knowing all the facts. How can you do that? Just as recent advancements have enabled cheating spouses to cultivate multiple relationships, the forward march of technology has made it easier to catch them red-handed. Here are a few surprising ways you can use technology to catch your cheating spouse.
Spy on Her Personal Communications
Maybe it’s time for you to break all trust and spy on your cheating spouse’s personal communication with a mobile spying application. With these apps, you will have direct access to your cheating Cherie’s smartphone that can reveal a lot, especially chats, texts and personal messages on social media. The chats and text messages that are sent may give you more information than you may have anticipated as close friends are quite frank and can give advice on relationships or what they think about them. A regular check will give you a good idea of how things are progressing. Cheaters often use false names, so watch out if a message arrives at an awkward moment.
- Check Emails
Another way your cheating partner can schedule snogging sessions with her pal could be through emails. Imagine if every conversation or email she sends online got mailed to you to read? Tracking software called XNSPY empower users to record all emails, IM chats, and text messages of the target without them ever knowing. All the information is automatically uploaded on your dashboard from where you can access it around the clock. Perhaps a little email planning for the next engagement with romance or some hot online chatting can find their way to your dashboard.
- Web Browsing History
You can even view her web browsing history and all the third party apps installed on the phone with this app to follow the trail of philandering fink.
- GPS Location Tracking
Remotely check location of your better half through this mobile spying application. So if she lies when asked about her whereabouts, you will have the proof where she is spending her time. Furthermore, you can even set alerts on important locations like her office, friend’s place, nearby pubs or discos to stay in the know of her location at all times.
- Check Call Logs
The spy app is the easiest way for you to tap into your spouse’s world as you can view all the incoming, outgoing and missed calls with exact time and call duration. More importantly, you’ll get to know who she is in contact with and what she is talking about as you can remotely monitor all the calls and check contact list with this sophisticated mean.
- Record Phone Surroundings
With this powerful feature, you’ll be able to take control of behind-the-wall conversations. All you need to do is activate the microphone on her phone and listen in on everything that she can.
But, what if she is using old means of communication?
Old-Fashioned Land Line Sleuthing
If your other half is still using the old-fashioned land line phone, snooping is easy. Plug a spare into the phone jack somewhere in the house where she rarely goes. Remove the mouthpiece beforehand, so she can’t listen to your sotto voce epithets while talking to her apple pie. Avoid wiggling the buttons because they make a clickety sound on the line that can get you busted. If you are sure your soon-to-be-ex-honey may not be able to resist a little sneaky call while you are around, recording the conversation might not be a bad idea. But you have to plan ahead, so you can easily tap the airwaves as she taps her inner Don Juan. A smartphone or feature phone with a recorder can be set next to the earpiece to record the ramblings for posterity. If it works and you have what you need, then there is no need to wait. Confront the cheater with her overnight bag and toothbrush and send her where she belongs.
Baby Monitor for Listening In
It’s an affordable low-tech way of listening in. However, it can be a bit tricky to use the baby monitor, especially if there are no babies in your abode at the moment, but you can get around that. Hit the local store when she’s out shopping and buy a basic baby monitor along with a masking tape (in case the device has blinking lights on it), and a can of spray paint that can blend with where you intend to put the transmitter. Paint the transmitter by covering the microphone hole so you won’t gum up the works. Now place the transmitter where you believe she will be making throaty sounds. Make sure to hide the device in a discrete place where she is unlikely to look. Probably behind the couch or books or somewhere in the bath or bedroom. Power up the transmitter and turned down to about human-whisper-and-giggle level. Return to your man cave and turn on the receiver to hear the radio. If you fail to hear anything, make adjustments until you are good to go. When the phone rings turn on the recorder and listen to what she says. Should you hear what you fear, don’t hesitate to call her a taxi.
Hopefully, the aforementioned ways will aid you to find proof of your partner’s infidelity. However, if you are still of the view that spouse is cheating and she is super sneaky and careful, you at least know how easy it is to create an environment to catch a cheating sweetheart in the not too distant future.
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